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The Girls and her Dreams 

 

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Ever wonder how a girl manages her daily consequences ?

Every girl has some of the restrictions. Some girls get the opportunity to build their careers and lives, while others must shape their destiny within certain restrictions. They might get the opportunity but not able to fulfil their dreams.

Most girls have to sacrifice their dreams, interrupted by various obstacles. From the day she was born till her last breath, she faces many consequences. Every girl has some restrictions. Some will give up and some tend to find a way from these grievances as well. Yes, it’s you who need to decide which path you need to take.  I think the second option is better than giving up.

  Yes, I know it is not easy to stand on and fight against the decision you take but think once your problem is much smaller than you. It is quite difficult but it’s not impossible to fight against and get towards the way to your dreams.

From childhood, the parents and society always teach girl to maintain limits in every field. Why they don’t ask the same to the son as well? 

  A girl always maintains her limits and want to achieve something in her life. Have you ever heard the favourite quote? Mostly, the biggest barrier to our dream. The Preferred quote of the family is always interrupted in between the path of our dreams.

“ what people will say ( log kya kahenge )"?

One thing I want to ask the whole community, why we bother about people’s opinion. They are not the remote controllers of your child. Parents, it’s you who can make your daughter’s destination and dreams come true. Be the supporter, not the barrier. If she decides to make her dreams come true, she will do so. So support your daughter, be a supporter, power and energy of her dreams.

 Give her a chance, an opportunity …. At least one time. She needs to be free from the cage and get a chance to the direction of her dream.  Although India gained independence long ago, girls have not. They don’t have freedom until now. Except for some girls, the rest are bound with some restrictions.

The problem is she doesn’t have the freedom to rule her own life. The decision of her life still depends on others. She isn’t able to do what she is happy with! … She isn’t able to do what makes her happy. She isn’t able to wear what she wants because people are judgmental. It is so easy to say, why we need to bother about other people’s sayings but deep inside every girl needs to face this type of judgmental opinions in her life. She is not the public property to harass, she is not the puppet to control. She is like a bird who wants to fly, not remain in a cage.

 There is no freedom anywhere! If the girl is independent enough, she is the luckiest person but she is also scared of her surroundings as well. Some will be courageous enough to fight with all the consequences but not all the girls.

 It is advice or duly respect to all the parents that instead of depending and thinking on people’s opinion. Think about your daughter and her dreams. Firstly, take the initial responsibility for a girl, to grow up strong and courageous. In or out of boundaries she has to face many challenges. Nowadays an intense problem is girls are not safe. Although, she gets the education, If she is not courageous and cannot defend herself, then it is a big issue. From childhood, a girl has to learn the plan to attack i.e., Self-defense

 So, she doesn’t need to depend on anything from anyone. She can protect herself and might be getting a proper education to the way to fulfil her dreams. Self-defence and self-discipline are major requirement for all of us and then she can follow the flow of her dreams.

 

                      Free from the cage is the ultimate solution