Girl

The Girls and her Dreams 

 

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Ever wonder how a girl manages her daily consequences ?

Every girl has some of the restrictions. Some girls get the opportunity to build their careers and lives, while others must shape their destiny within certain restrictions. They might get the opportunity but not able to fulfil their dreams.

Most girls have to sacrifice their dreams, interrupted by various obstacles. From the day she was born till her last breath, she faces many consequences. Every girl has some restrictions. Some will give up and some tend to find a way from these grievances as well. Yes, it’s you who need to decide which path you need to take.  I think the second option is better than giving up.

  Yes, I know it is not easy to stand on and fight against the decision you take but think once your problem is much smaller than you. It is quite difficult but it’s not impossible to fight against and get towards the way to your dreams.

From childhood, the parents and society always teach girl to maintain limits in every field. Why they don’t ask the same to the son as well? 

  A girl always maintains her limits and want to achieve something in her life. Have you ever heard the favourite quote? Mostly, the biggest barrier to our dream. The Preferred quote of the family is always interrupted in between the path of our dreams.

“ what people will say ( log kya kahenge )"?

One thing I want to ask the whole community, why we bother about people’s opinion. They are not the remote controllers of your child. Parents, it’s you who can make your daughter’s destination and dreams come true. Be the supporter, not the barrier. If she decides to make her dreams come true, she will do so. So support your daughter, be a supporter, power and energy of her dreams.

 Give her a chance, an opportunity …. At least one time. She needs to be free from the cage and get a chance to the direction of her dream.  Although India gained independence long ago, girls have not. They don’t have freedom until now. Except for some girls, the rest are bound with some restrictions.

The problem is she doesn’t have the freedom to rule her own life. The decision of her life still depends on others. She isn’t able to do what she is happy with! … She isn’t able to do what makes her happy. She isn’t able to wear what she wants because people are judgmental. It is so easy to say, why we need to bother about other people’s sayings but deep inside every girl needs to face this type of judgmental opinions in her life. She is not the public property to harass, she is not the puppet to control. She is like a bird who wants to fly, not remain in a cage.

 There is no freedom anywhere! If the girl is independent enough, she is the luckiest person but she is also scared of her surroundings as well. Some will be courageous enough to fight with all the consequences but not all the girls.

 It is advice or duly respect to all the parents that instead of depending and thinking on people’s opinion. Think about your daughter and her dreams. Firstly, take the initial responsibility for a girl, to grow up strong and courageous. In or out of boundaries she has to face many challenges. Nowadays an intense problem is girls are not safe. Although, she gets the education, If she is not courageous and cannot defend herself, then it is a big issue. From childhood, a girl has to learn the plan to attack i.e., Self-defense

 So, she doesn’t need to depend on anything from anyone. She can protect herself and might be getting a proper education to the way to fulfil her dreams. Self-defence and self-discipline are major requirement for all of us and then she can follow the flow of her dreams.

 

                      Free from the cage is the ultimate solution  

The side we never wished to know

We usually see things not as they are instead of how we are, " we find the similarities in differences "!

A man and a woman are two sides of a coin. Both are equally handling troubles in their life but eventually, we always gave attention to the injustices of women rather than men. I endorse that women have certain problems which cannot be faced easily but men do also have so many other problems in their life.

Men tend to showcase themselves as stronger and courageous but deep inside we also know that they become unstable at times and expect emotional support. From childhood, the upbringing of youngsters has been compared in major terms. No one bothered anytime. Boys do possess a lot of responsibilities, Every time they cannot determine that what they were fulfilling for their families. People are so judgemental they judge on any basis. At every point in life, people say something or the other which sometimes devastated the way of living of the boys. 

• What if they don't get a proper job? 
• What if they are not earning? 
• What if they do get fewer marks? 
• What if they want to choose their career in their passion of living? 
• What if they weren't able to uphold the responsibilities? 

 There are further numerous other things that are being heard, at times boys do need their parents and friends to support them. They do have restrictions, they need to face many fundamental situations in their life. Alternatively, they have degrees if they don’t have their jobs then what shall they do?

It's s alright if they don't get a satisfactory job or do they get fewer marks. Instead of supporting them in their dark time's people moan and yell in and out around them. They need to deal with patience for all this situation. Boyhood is suffering from so many complications in its life. It's better to give them time because, at a right time, everything will be sorted. So, what is the use of your offenses on them at their dreadful times?  

Think once  

• How do they need to endure their problems regularly? 
• Ever thought about how men can manage and earn to fulfill family accountabilities? 

You need to focus on yourself boys, it is okay if someone is not able to understand your situation. one day you will get the opportunity to shine in your roller coaster ride. So, stop being stressed about people's opinions. Trust on God you will get your time to showcase your skills and make yourself so comfortable in this society and make your parents proud of what you are doing.  

Nowadays, one more interesting thing is going on unbelievable feminism - Boys do get harassed but surprisingly there is no rule passed for fake feminism, cheating, and creating a mess in the boy's life. Harassment is not worth it, not for the men, not for the women. please gentlemen don't be silent for injustice. 

women need to sacrifice their dreams like men do have to sacrifice dreams too.

Their priority is family responsibility. Except for a few men, others are facing something or the other in their life. It is just a waste of crab to compare with one another.  In my opinion, I believe they do have much more difficulties but the thing is  “They won’t signify their complications with others”. From their childhood till their last breath men need to live for their family and their loved ones. We always see the mothers do a lot of hard work for their children and we never observe the sacrifice of time and energy of our fathers, Appreciate their work too ....!!

Learn to understand yourself and others

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In life, we will face a lot of consequences. There are numerous people all over the world. Everyone has their preferences and opinions. Ever wonder because of misunderstandings we were ruined our lives.
The major trouble Is, “we see the things not the way they are but how we are”. Our vision is obscene. As per a distinct position, we measure our maturity at the time of arrogance not at the time of joviality. You need to be a good listener to acknowledging things at a deeper level. Listen to everyone but do what you wanted to do so.

 The level of perception must be the first-ever priority in your life. Whenever we fight with someone, we will precisely make sure that we are right and the next person is wrong.
Firstly,  we need to understand what is right and what is wrong?
We are not the perfectionist that we are always perfect in every profession and will be always right.

Usually, in our life, it happens when we need to convey our thoughts to someone that person might be busy or disturbed somewhere. We aren't able to clarify this type of situations only. Isn’t it?
We never understand another person’s perspective. A  small misunderstanding can create a big mess in our life. If you want the world need to understand you then you need to know another person’s perspective as well. It would be a sympathetic opinion for everyone that you need to think once before you speak and twice before you understand by yourself.

Our egoistic behaviour is not worth it in today’s world. The understanding level must be adaptable by everyone in their life.
Any relation in this world is only maturing because of the level of maturity and understanding of the person in his/her life. understanding shows maturity but misunderstanding ruins every relation in this world. So, what were you thinking right now? Just go and clarify and never let this hazardous manner of misunderstanding will not affect your life. Remember one thing, everything will be fine when you are calm and able to understand everyone’s viewpoint.

You need to understand yourself first

 

Brother

The Best buddy: Brothers 💙

Brother is not just a word, it is an emotion. The only person you can trust after your parents is your brother. He cares for you as no one else can, he pretends that he doesn't love you but deep inside you also know why he restricts you from certain things. Having brothers in our life is a blessing. 
Whenever you are in a tricky situation, where you don’t want to talk with anyone but you will share it with your brother. Because you know no matter what happens he will be there for you always.

They are the problem solvers and the problem creator, they will make sure to help you out with  'n'  number of situations. If our siblings aren’t there in our life, then the most tasteless and annoying life is ours. Although we need to fight with them for each and everything, we will sort it out as soon as possible but after a while, we again started fighting for no reason & that's okay. These are the most beautiful moments with your brother which you might miss in the future. People change after an age group but memories are alive till our last breath.
Remember, in childhood days when no smartphones, no screens nothing. The life those days were worth of our living with our brothers or sisters. Hope you remember, when you used to play games with him, how annoyingly he started fighting. We usually fight for silly things with our brothers. perhaps we fight for remotes. Don't know! How many remotes were wrecked by those fights?

Not only this you used to fight for chocolates, toys as well as food. Everything you need is equally distributed. If not mess happens like a hell. Oh my goodness!! Bymistakely if you and your brother were alone at home, then the home becomes the battlefield. Such hilarious moments you could had with your brothers/sisters.

The most important thing in this relationship is blackmailing. Unfortunately, if you got the secret then you can rule accordingly and vice versa. There are a lot of other memories. 

The purest form of relationship in the world is the brother-sister bond.

I hope, we will relate to this point…. Although you fought thousands of times with him, if someone scolds or says something against your brother, you will feel automatically angry and fight with that person.  Interference is not at all permitted in this bond.

Your childhood was marvelous simply because of your brothers/sisters. We fight, we cry, we laugh, we tease, make a lot of memories but never left them alone.

It is the profound duty of a sister to annoy, irritate, disturb, tolerate, and always fight with their brothers but in reality, the situation is different. Our brother annoys us, irritates us, teases us, and makes us cry a lot. But they never want their sister to be upset for any reason. Brothers will try a lot of things just to make their sister always be happy. They will pretend that they hate us but deep inside we know,“ Their action speaks louder than their words”!!

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